Love Language

I was watching Youtube when I saw this personality quiz: Love Language.

I was immediately sold and took the same test right away after that. Apparently, love comes in five main languages: acts of service, receiving gifts, physical touch, quality time and words of affirmation.

So, what moves my heart the most?

Surprise, surprise.

I absolutely agree! I really love spending time with the special people that I have in my life. I love uninterrupted bonding time, no phone calls, no texts, just you and me. I am guilty of occasionally indulging myself in replying string of texts while hanging out but not so much anymore now (I think). I can get upset when I don't have the full attention of the people that I am interacting with, which in reality, happens quite a lot, sadly. WHY? Sobs.

Then, it's the words of affirmation which was not quite what I expected. However, I do understand why I got a high mark for it. I love letters. I love reading pages of long handwritten letters. The letters I received were unusually funny and cheesy, I love them to bits. I can cry and laugh at the same time reading the words that I don't usually hear coming out from that particular person's mouth, which makes it much more meaningful than it already has been. Yes, write and send me letters, I'll love you to death.

Acts of service and receiving gifts were tied in. I figured that I do not really like when people do things for me because I feel like I am burdening them. I appreciate the gestures, but they don't move my heart as much as I feel guilty for some reason. I do not think that I will ever feel touched to the point that I will tear up out of happiness...or will I? I shall wait for the day to come and blog about it for me to prove myself wrong in the future.

Lastly, I am obviously not a touchy person but I do love hugs! I used to hug my friends a lot back in my school days. Hugs are my instant pick me up kind of thing. It makes me feel better when I don't feel so good, when I have tonnes of worries in my head, and it just makes me feel loved in general. I miss my huggers and huggees! All that I can hug right now is my huge penguin.

Help me!

I think this helps to clear the air in trying to figure out myself a bit. I have been wondering why I can never react overwhelmingly to certain stuff that people do for me. I thought I was not normal! Hey, it turns out that I am perfectly fine, just that it's not my cup of tea. I guess you can now think what you can do for my birthday next year! Nothing expensive, I just need your love, tender and care. ;) HAHA!

What is your love language? To find out, click here!