I just finished keying-in my record of expenses for the last 11 months. Yes, 11 MONTHS.
Obviously, I have been procrastinating and neglecting my personal finance for so long and of course, I have been in denial…
The satisfaction of being able to see the breakdown of my own expenses is indescribable. I like knowing where all my money went because it gives me a sense of control (albeit too late but there's still hope for future expenses). Sometimes, I try to reason with myself to justify my own spending. It’s not exactly convincing but hey, I deserve those sushi dates! And those bags of popcorns!
To be honest, I am not exactly a person that stays on budget every single time. I don’t even make a specific budget because I am very lenient with myself. To be able to stick to a budget would be an achievement to me. I used to have specific amount of savings that I would set aside every time I receive my allowance, but not since the past year.
I would blame that on my landlord’s son. (Obviously this is an excuse and I should be able to work around it if I really wanted to.) Ever since I moved to my current apartment, I always have to make sure that I have ~extra~ money in my chequing account because he couldn’t be consistent with depositing my cheques. Therefore, I am always left with the perception that I have saved enough money when in reality, I have not.
However, I would really give myself a pat on the back for resisting temptations. I have managed to kinda save money to satisfy my financial goals (travel adventures and whatnots) by:
- Cutting down on junk food. Seriously, a bag of chips here is equivalent to the price of at least five apples. I’d eat my fruits thank you. But whenever they are on sale, sometimes, I’d sneak in a bag or two. :P
- Packing lunch for long school days. The downside of it is you have to make an effort to cook. The upside of it, you get to improve your cooking skills. Sometimes, when I’m just plain lazy, rice and omelette it is! Comfort food is the best.
- Avoid eating out or ordering in. I only would give in to this option whenever I got an invitation. Everyone is always busy so whenever someone invites me out, I would try to make time for it because your friends are important too! And it’s okay to splurge once in a while to eat nice food that is not prepared by yourself. :3
- Find alternatives to entertainment. I enjoy reading and books are relatively cheap here. $2 for a hardcover book is a steal okay. But I only read my books once and after I am done reading, I stash them away in the bookshelves to collect dust. Therefore, I have moved on to reading books on my phone because I can download books for free. Library works too but that requires so much effort for a homebody like me.
- Resist impulse purchase. However, I am rarely out and at times, I feel obliged to buy something just because. Therefore, the only time you would see me out and about in shopping malls is whenever I have goals to achieve or things in mind that I wanted to purchase beforehand. This includes grocery shopping too.
All of the above are mostly about resisting and avoiding purchase but it works well with me. I am not a big spender in the first place so I’d like to believe that I have the ability to control my wants. I don’t believe in over-controlling but I believe in being smart with your money. It’s important to have a sense of balance between security and leisure.
Money is not everything but hey, it does make your life easier!





